How to Age Well: 16 Rules I Live By at 60
How to Age Well: 16 Rules I Live By at 60 Nobody gives you a rulebook when you turn 60. You write your own, one lesson (and one sore muscle) at a time. I’ve been teaching group fitness since 1989. That’s a lot of years of standing in front of a room full of women, watching them get stronger, laugh through the hard parts, and show up for each other. Add 10 years post-menopause, a husband of 37+ years, three grown kids, and a granddaughter who calls me Coco, and I’ve collected a few truths along the way. After 40+ years of training women, here’s what I’ve learned about how to age well. These are the rules I actually live by, so steal the ones you love. Take Care of the Body That Carried You 1. Lift something heavy. Strength training is healthcare, not a hobby. I lift heavier at 60 than I did at 40, because muscle is what gets you up off the floor, carries the groceries, and scoops up a granddaughter without a second thought. And no, it won’t make you bulky. 2. Go to bed (or at least try). If I could go back, I’d shake my 40-year-old self and say, “GO TO BED.” I’ll be honest, I’m not a 7-to-9-hours girl yet. I’m working toward averaging seven hours a night, and my Oura Ring is a huge part of that. It shows me what helps my sleep (and what wrecks it), so I can keep adjusting. 3. Wear shoes you can actually walk in. I love to shop, and I refuse to believe comfortable shoes have to be ugly shoes. Find the pair that works with jeans, a dress, and a two-mile walk, and buy it in two colors. These are my favorite comfortable walking shoes, and the four shoes I’ve walked over 20,000 steps in without pain! 4. Drink your water (and salt it). In my 50s I was dragging every afternoon until I realized my body needed more sodium (yes, really!). A little salt in my water and my energy came back. Your body changes, so listen to it. Learn more about the benefits of electrolytes, and why LMNT is my brand of choice! 5. Be kind to the body you have. At 40, I cared how my body looked. At 60, I care how it functions. Do whatever makes you feel good in your skin, whether that’s a great haircut or a new serum. Enhance, never erase. Aging gracefully, to me, means feeling good in your skin. I love getting older, and I also get botox. Both can be true! Protect Your Time Like It’s Precious (Because It Is) 6. “No” is a complete answer. Brené Brown says clear is kind, and I’ve taken that to heart. Every half-hearted yes steals time from something you actually care about. 7. Clear the clutter. Tossing things has always come easy to me. I know that’s not true for a lot of women, and that’s okay. But the older I get, the more I believe less baggage makes life lighter, whether it’s the closet, the calendar, or the mental to-do list running at 2 a.m. If letting go is hard for you, start with one drawer. 8. Buy the plane ticket. “Someday” has a sneaky way of never showing up. Book the trip, the concert, the weekend away. I’ve never once looked back and wished I’d bought more things instead of making more memories. While you’re booking, check out my travel essentials that make travel days enjoyable. 9. Keep learning new tricks. Try the new class format, the new recipe, the app your grandkid has to explain to you twice. A curious brain is a young brain. Choose Your People on Purpose 10. Find your crew. Group fitness changed my life, and it’s not only because of the workouts. It’s the friendships. The women who notice when you miss class and text to check on you. And then there are the friendships that go even deeper. I have girlfriends who’ve been by my side for 30+ years. They’re my tribe, the women I can tell absolutely everything to. Friendships like that don’t happen by accident, so make the call, plan the dinner, and keep showing up. 11. Put family first. Family is the most important thing in my life, period. I’ll rearrange just about anything to spend time with my kids and grandkids. The work and the to-do list will be there tomorrow, but these moments won’t wait. 12. Tend your relationships. After 37+ years of marriage, I can tell you love takes work (the good kind). Invest in the relationships that lift you, and give yourself permission to step back from the ones that only drain you. 13. Drop the grudge. Carrying resentment is like doing farmer’s carries all day with nowhere to set the weights down. Forgiving someone doesn’t mean you have to keep them in your life. It means you stop carrying the anger around, and that feels so much lighter. Forgive others, and forgive yourself even faster. Own Every Single Year 14. Say what you think. Two decades of live TV and home shopping taught me that your voice only matters if you use it. You’ve earned your opinions. Share them. 15. Make joy non-negotiable. Taking care of yourself isn’t selfish. I schedule my workouts like appointments, because I’m a better wife, mom, boss, and Coco when I show up for me first. 16. Stop apologizing for your age. Turning 60 isn’t something to hide. Say the number out loud. This stage of life is not the consolation prize. It’s the main event. My Aging-Well Toolkit (The Stuff I Actually Use) Rules are great, but I’m a practical girl. People ask me all the time what I actually use to keep up with this list, so here’s my real, everyday lineup. None of it is magic. It just makes the good habits a whole lot easier to stick with. My
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